Following the Followers

One of the toughest realisations that we have to make in life is that few (if any) of our thoughts are truly, uniquely our own.

Everything we think, do, say and believe is actually the product of our surroundings; and more specifically the people we surround ourselves with. We learn by copying those around us, and this is not always a great thing. The more you think about anything you think, do or say, you will eventually agree you gained the idea from someone, somewhere, at some time in your life.

Of course, the real tragedy of life, is that many people never become conscious of this fact, and just how much they are a product of their surroundings. Many of us live in a kind of half-consciousness, simply following the lead of the person in front of us.

Earl Nightingale – often called the Dean of Personal Development, has discussed this idea at length. He said that while most people believe they are truly living their own life, they are in fact actually copying someone else’s life. He claims that most people aren’t in fact following the leaders in life, they are actually following the followers.

Most people don’t take the time to really assess who they are following. Rather they just fall into step with those by whom they are surrounded. And in doing this, they miss the chance to choose to follow more appropriate people, the real leaders in life. They miss the chance to create a greater life for themselves and their family.

Now, while many people may never be conscious of this fact, you do have the opportunity to choose. Being conscious of what you think, how you behave and deciding how you want your life to turn out is a powerful step in your personal evolution.

Perhaps it is worthwhile taking a few of your precious deep held beliefs back to their source. Really evaluate whether the idea suits you and your current life. You might be amazed that most of the power you seek is trapped behind some outdated belief that somebody gave you years ago.